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In this Sundanese wedding traditions, everything looks so simple. The traditions itself, the usage of the clothes, the supporting goods, and the others. All seems so easy to applied. That’s why many Javanese people intend to do the Sundanese wedding traditions instead of their own culture. Not because they didn’t respect it, but they want the simple things in Sundanese traditions and then applied into Javanese. So they created this kind of combination of culture between Javanese and Sundanese.
Then, let’s talk about some traditions first, that people must do in their Sundanese wedding. We divide this into two categories, before and in the wedding day.
Well, before the wedding day comes, there are so many things to be done. Here they are :
Then, the day after that the parents will come to the female’s house, to “talk” with her parents. It’s not always the male’s parents actually, if they can’t come, they will choose the other people in the family to represent them. So, the talking begins, the intention of their coming will be spoken. Well, actually the male parents want the girl to be their daughter in law, and after agreeing that will, the girl’s parents will “keep the promise” for them. The next step will begin shortly.
They intend to give them all to the bride’s family in order this meaning of obligation and grateful. This is the first step that actually bring tears to the bride. And also the groom, maybe. Their relationship will become more serious and then after they finishing all the things that must to be done, they finally will become one family, forever.
Usually, the groom will give the household tools and also foods. Also the other optional things that the groom may bring. The stuff has the relation with family business, so even though they only symbolic, but they have this strong meaning.
Usually they can do the Seserahan activity in three or seven days before the wedding day. It’s so simple actually, many people will and can do it. After the Seserahan done, they can continue the next step which is completely optional, the Ngeyeuk Seureuh or engagement party.
There are several processions though, including the invitation of Pangeuyeuk or maybe an MC for the show. Then Pangeyeuk will do some several activties like singing the Kidung song, then Sawer Beras, the Mayang Jambe splitting, and so forth. The Pangeuyeuk is maybe the most essential person in the ceremony. For he is the person who understand all the activities in Ngeyeruk Seureuh. That’s why, family will invite the most trustable and maybe the most fun Pangeyeuk for their ceremony.
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After dealing with some other activities before the important day, now prepare yourself for the day that many have waited and the couple excited about, the Wedding Day. In this wedding day, there are many processions to complete the Sundanese wedding traditions, like :
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Therefore, the first thing to do here is sitting in front of the person called Penghulu, the one that will change their status. After the groom say the sacred words, then they can be family legally, finally. Then the touching procession begin.
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They ask them to forgive their mistakes in the past, and maybe they did hurt them in some ways. Of course, as parents they will forgive all their mistakes and problems. After this, the wife will leave the family and life the new life with her own partner.
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Therefore, those are the ceremonies and activities in Sundanese Wedding Traditions. Even though they are more complicate to do, but many people still use them until now. However, some people make it more simple by cutting off some of the unimportant processions to make it more simple and budget saving. No matter what the wedding procession you are into, the thing that important is you and your partner will become one. United as one lovely family, forever and ever.
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